Why Does Sex Hurt

There are so many reasons why you hurt during or after sex. Most people don't want to talk about it and most of you don't want to go to a doctor because it's embarrassing for you, but medical treatments and inspections are must when it comes to your private areas. Sometimes the information on  the internet might not be your answer. So please don't trust everything you seen on the internet. Some people share their experiences, but that doesn't mean you and that person has the same body. You have to do more and more research before trying out anything.

This hurting might be happening for several reasons. Mostly what causes the pain is being not comfortable. You have to have sex in a comfortable position which you and your partner both can agree. If you are trying out a new sex position then you will have pain until you find the best arrangement of a comfortable position. Women get hurt at the first time. It depends on the body types. Some hurt a little but some hurt really bad. If you have an infection in your vagina then that might be the problem. Sometimes you hurt because your vagina is tight and the penis you get is so big. That's of cause pleasure but it hurts at the moment as well as after sex. For men also have the same problem if you are having a tight vagina. Because your penis needs more room to stretch your foreskin. It's pleasure too but you might get bleeding from your foreskin. You will hurt for sure if you are having anal sex. Not most of the people do that but there are people loves to do anal sex. Most of the time this happens when the girl can't loose the virginity but want to have sex with the boyfriend. For them both it's pretty pleasing. Anal is so tight which gives guys the most pleasure, but it might rip your foreskin off. Trust me that happens sometimes. You have to make sure to wear a condom for anal sex because your penis might catch up with germs and it will cause infections. For women it will be so painful. Because the anus isn't made for penetration. It's a tiny hole. Inserting a grown penis is a big deal to it. I personally don't recommend anal sex, but if you are trying out then be so careful.


Sometimes the pain will cause mentally. This happens for everyone when they are having sex for the first time. When you get over it and get used to it then it will be so normal. Mental illness might cause the pain sometimes. When you want sex but your partner doesn't then he or she will not perform well. That is personal so you have to figure that out on your own.

Please don't have sex when the women in their periods. That's not nice. Another thing you get hurt during sex is you are not good in lubricants. Sometimes women get dry vagina. That will cause pain when you get a penis. Men will also get the same pain. This is sex, not masturbation, so don't use any kind of artificial lubricants. The best lubricants you have is pre-cum and spit. Try managing those things while having sex. If you are having any sort of a pain for a long time, you must see a doctor about it. Don't be embarrassed because those doctors sees tons of vaginas and penises. So I hope you got an idea.Go have great sex..!!